Ooh, awkward!

January 30th, 2011

Good thing Mark Zuckerberg has a day job.  An actor he is not!

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Hereafter

January 27th, 2011

Just the other day, I was having a conversation with my nephew about what happens when we die.  Is there a heaven, is there a hell?  Having watched a few close ones die, I’ve come to the conclusion that actually it just really is the end.  Darkness.  Extinguished.  Voila.

So I was really curious about this movie.  As the poster says ‘touched by death.  changed by life’.  It explores the lives of 3 people who have somehow been affected by death, and their stories of LIVING.

There’s Marie (Cecile de France), a successful TV journalist who died and was revived in a tsunami.  She finds it impossible to go back to her old life and remain untouched by her experience of death.  Marcus (George+Frankie McLaren) has to deal with death at a very young age and George (Matt Damon) is a psychic – he makes connections to the dead  (for real) and finds it a curse, not a blessing, and tries to separate himself from his ‘gift’.

It’s very moving, and the story of young Marcus had me in (many) (loud) tears.  Marie’s story is interesting and redemptive (but oh I so wanted to fix her hair) and Matt Damon pulls it off as a tortured regular guy with a strange gift.  Not as nuanced as it could have been, but his performance is pretty solid.

What doesn’t quite work is the way director Clint Eastwood ties it all together in the end.  It’s just a little too pat, the ribbon is a little too tight.  Some ambiguity would have been better.

Overall though, a moving film, an interesting question, a story almost well told (bar the ending) with some great cinematography – the first 10 minutes, and the way Bryce Dallas Howard is lit in George’s apartment is a work of art.

I wouldn’t say it’s a MUST see, but I think it’s a good to see, enjoyable, interesting and worth the $8.

And I’d like to believe Marie’s visions.  I really really would.

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Sabai Fine Thai on the Bay

January 25th, 2011

Who doesn’t love Thai food?

Yet despite our proximity to actual Thailand, it’s hard to find a good Thai restaurant.  You know, one where the food is honest and good, the ambience mellow, and you can kick off your heels and chill while eating the hot, sweet, sour, salty yumminess.

Last week I had dinner at Sabai on the Bay.  I already knew Sabai from the Ngee Ann City outlet (it’s the RED restaurant).  I was hopeful it would be my kind of joint as I know from eating at the Ngee Ann outlet that the food at Sabai is pretty damned good.

So – the food is really good.  But mellow it is not.  Firstly, there was a private party downstairs so we were seated upstairs…where the sound drifts up, and you don’t really get the view of the bay.  It was hard to hear each other.  Secondly, because of where it’s at, it’s going to be a bit chi-chi.

©Sabai

So if you want a nice Thai meal with a touch of swanky and chic, this is it.

the Sabai mojito

Steve had the signature lemongrass mojito, and when the waiter heard I had a cough, suggested a hot lemongrass and honey.  It was delicious and Steve liked the mojito so much he had a few more ; )

We had fabulous crackers and dip (khao tang na tang) – so horribly more-ish, a worthy green mango salad, good prawn cakes, very good stir-fried beef and the signature duck curry.  And strange as this may sound, Sabai does the best stir-fried veg.  Maybe the best test really is the simple things.

No complaints at all about the food, it really was all just right; well-balanced, not heavy handed and really tasty.

It was unfortunate that we were seated upstairs which didn’t really have much of an ambience.  The downstairs dining room looked great and I think if the weather’s nice, sitting outside with a awesome view of our new skyline, plus the high food standards would make for a really nice evening.

I’ll definitely go back for more.  It’s way better than many other swanky Thai restaurants on our little island.

Sabai Fine Thai on the Bay, Customs House, Collyer Quay 65353718

the set lunch at Sabai on the Bay

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Monday Idol

January 24th, 2011

I was a huge fan of American Idol but because I find the combo of Steven Tyler, JLo and Randy Jackson uncomfortable and downright WEIRD, I haven’t bothered to watch it this season.  What, Idol without Cowell?  Doesn’t make sense!

Nonetheless, I came across this clip where I think this boy (he’s 15) deserves attention.  But man, those judges are weird!!

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The Commoner

January 20th, 2011

by  John Burnham Schwartz

7.5/10

This would have made a higher rating if the story was totally pulled out of the author’s imagination, but since it’s based on the skeleton of facts, I took a point off.

The skeleton is this – post-war Japan, the Crown Prince of Japan is looking for a wife, and chooses a commoner.  She struggles with Palace life and, as Empress, her own son chooses outside the aristocracy for his wife too.

Those are facts, and what actually did happen.

What Schwartz has done is added some lovely, delicate flesh onto the bones of the story.  The names are not the same, but the story is.

He’s embellished conversations, personalities, occasions, and made it so real, so credible, so empathetic that you actually believe that’s how it all happened.   Haruko (based on the real Empress Michiko) is likeable, real, and charming.  The love story itself is delightful, and so delicately nuanced and so much unspoken that it’s easy to project romantic fantasies.

Haruko is a ‘normal’, attractive, well-educated girl from a well-to-do merchant family – not dissimilar to the Empress’ own roots – has a nice life and is under no pressure to marry.    To choose to marry into the Imperial Household was a big decision, and not one to be undertaken lightly, as we see from the proceedings.

A young Empress Michiko

You wonder how Schwartz has managed to get so much access to what is known to be a very closed court – the Imperial Household is severe, and the description ‘conservative’ doesn’t even begin to describe the tightly-bound ties to tradition, legacy and heritage.  Yet the feeling of ‘insider information’ perpetuates the book.

What’s amazing is that the author is American, yet creates the cadence of a cloistered, blue-blooded Japan perfectly.  While not as delicately wrought as a Kazuo Ishuguro, or Junichiro Tanizakis pacing of silence, the atmosphere he creates really makes you feel you are getting a glimpse into a closed world.  His writing is lyrical, gentle and intimate.

My only criticism is that I would have liked more of the story told – from the time that Haruko becomes Crown Princess to her adjustment to Palace life is strangely missing.

The deviation from what is actual fact is the happy ending that’s created.  We know that the Imperial Household is a prison with no escape, a truly gilded cage.

It’s a lovely read, and a fascinating insight (although not fact, you know he’s done lots of research and is probably as real as it’s going to get) into the Japanese Royal family.  What is most moving of all though, is Haruko’s normal family life, and her relationship with her father.

It’s so easy to believe it’s a real story and everything actually happened as in the book – yet equally the Imperial Household is so alien that it’s just as easy to believe it’s all a work of fiction.

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Favourite Podcasts

January 18th, 2011

There is so much free stuff for your ears out there, especially if you have iTunes accounts in various parts of the world.  (Highly recommended)

Even if you don’t, the major providers have sites that you can download from.

I listen to podcasts while driving, because I can’t bear local radio.  I download a mix of funny, thought-provoking, educational, and some wayy too worthy stuff that I never finish listening to.

Here are my picks:

Because I grew up with BBC Radio 1, it’s top of my download list.  It’s part of the background noise of my youth!  My favourite is Scott Mills, who does a daily, silly and funny podcast; and Chris Moyles Enhanced.  Chris Moyles is the ‘primetime’ DJ and Scott no 2.  Chris’ humour is a lot more boy and a bit harder for me to get into.  Music is not included (copyright reasons) so you get the chat and the banter.  Admittedly if you didn’t grow up with this it might not work for you but give it a go – you never know.  Both have huge international downloads so I am not alone!  You can get both on iTunes or the BBC Radio 1 site.  On the site you can also listen live.

The Moth:  The Moth is stories told without notes – open mic nights.  There are some very accomplished raconteurs, and some very moving and/or funny stories.  Each story is about 15 minutes long.  Generally you get an insight into some ordinary (and some not so ordinary) lives and yes, it does make you feel connected to the human race.  On iTunes or here.

Daily Bacon: Richard Bacon, on BBC Radio 5 Live, interviews some very entertaining people: Bette Midler, PJ O’Rourke, Elvis Costello, Ricky Gervais among others.  It’s not mind-blowing stuff.  Just entertaining.  iTunes or the 5Live site.

Ted Talks:  You must have heard of Ted.  “Ideas worth spreading” with some fantastic speakers that give you plenty of food for thought.  How to make the world a better place, why space travel, what’s the latest technology, why try?  Ted speakers inspire you to look up from your navel and make your life a little richer.  iTunes.  If you’re not able to download, I implore you to go to the Ted site and start listening.

Ricky Gervais:  I don’t like these podcasts but I know many who do.  I just find his humour sometimes too cruel.  But for the sake of including others’ tastes…Ricky’s on iTunes.

Rolling Stone Magazine does some great podcasts:  they have a few in-depth interviews worth listening to – a series with Bono, and the landmark interviews back in the day with John Lennon.  They also have a video podcast series featuring new music, and a series of bands playing live, called – “Live”!  iTunesUSA

Under the heading of “worthy and I must listen more to expand brain”:  A History of the World in 100 objects.  OK, it’s a bit slow, but for example, they examine a kris from the British Museum, and tell you the history of the kris, and in that, the history of the country at the time.  It is interesting but for some reason I don’t always choose this first… iTunes or the BBC Radio 4 site.  If you like this kind of thing, BBC Radio 4 has LOTS of educational radio.  Really well-done stuff too, arts and culture as well as “the mathematics of randomness and pseudorandomness” (Melvyn Bragg, In Our Time, another very popular podcast)

I like NPR’s StoryCorps.  Stories about regular people, told in their own voice.  StoryCorp is not for profit.  Generally, I love NPR as a whole!  iTunes USA or here

Lucy’s picks (on FB I asked for recommendations)

NPR’s Tiny Desk Concerts.  It’s really cool…musicians performing at someone’s desk at the NPR office, just jamming.  (download the Abigail Washburn one – fab…and Luisa Malta too) Video podcast.  iTunes USA or here

Best of Current TV:  Current TV is the network that Al Gore is involved with – it’s targetted at 18-34 year olds, and brings the world to this demographic in a different voice.  There’s lots of user-generated stuff, community TV, topical, edgy…and the Best of programme is the best way in.  Video podcasts on iTunes USA.  Check our their site here.

Cool Hunting: an offshoot of the successful website, Cool Hunting is all about – yes – cool stuff.  Designs, trends, all sorts.  iTunes USA.  Check out the cool website here

There is so much more – there’s Oprah, there’s Tom Greene, there’s Martha Stewart, The Onion, i-Carly, knitting, sex (you would not believe how many sex podcasts there are – Q+A’s mostly), spirituality, yoga, finance, Sesame Street, learn French, Spanish, Japanese, Mandarin…all free!

And if you have any favourites I haven’t mentioned – let me know!

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The Help

January 14th, 2011

8.5/10

This is a gem of a book.  About a small town in the American South in the early 60s, the book follows the lives of the previously unheard – the black home help in a small Southern town.  Set at the time of Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks and the demand for racial equality, I feared at first that this would be a political novel.  It isn’t overtly so.

The message is told by the stories and the lives of the main characters, who are lovable, funny, and so real.  It’s an uplifting, lively, enjoyable read.

Skeeter wants to be a writer and undertakes a dangerous project – to chronicle the stories of the maids (black) of the more affluent (white) families.  Skeeter risks alienation from her peers, who are firmly entrenched in keeping the help where they belong, and the maids who come forward risk losing their jobs.

She goes where few whites of the time went – into the lives of the poor black community of the town, and realises that they have whole lives and stories of their own, and not just as maids.  Ironically what the maids see about the families they work for makes you realise that having and not having has nothing to do with colour.

Told with much affection, a light hand with a comic turn, and with characters of such depth you feel you’ll soon see them on Oprah, Kathryn Stockett manages to show how lives were lived then, and what was normal, accepted.

Bonds are forged, broken, eyes are opened, and by the end of the book I was hoping for The Help 2 so I could hang out with these fabulous women more.

There’s a movie in the works so read the book before it comes out and let Kathryn Stockett tell you the story.

For those of us in this part of the world, home help is expected and normal – and many still treat their maids as second or third class citizens or even worse, created just to look after their babies/kids/homes with no expectations of lives of their own.  It makes me crazy.  Maybe one day someone here will write a local version of The Help.  I think we need it.

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PS Café in Chinatown

January 12th, 2011

Yes, my favourite eating haunt has spawned another child.

I’m not sure we needed another outlet but PS Café is now open at Ann Siang Hill, in a corner shophouse overlooking the park.

Like all its siblings, this one is comfortable yet stylish.  It’s more bistro-y in style than the others (tiles, mirrors – a little cold) but the signature feel of PS is still there – big pandanus, foliage (in and out), and a menu that’s full of edibles (not chi-chi dishes, but real food!).  The menu is a hybrid of all the outlets, plus a few new dishes, and of course, the usual generous desserts (sticky date toffee pudding!) and don’t forget the amazing truffle fries.  Menu here.

the bar on the ground floor

Because it’s a shophouse, it’s narrow with odd corners, and goes up to a groovy lounge area and the sweetest little outdoor terrace.

dining, on the second floor

Friend Sue says that during the day, the vibe is different, as the park foliage is visible, and quite pretty.  Probably warms up the ambience quite a bit.  I imagine this is a good weekend brunch spot – it’s probably a lot less noisy than the Dempsey outlet.

Controversially, the outlet does not welcome kids – as a CBD outlet it’s targeting business diners and I guess the small narrow spaces are not kid-friendly.

As with all the outlets, service can be hit and miss.  We had a great waiter, Mico, who was charming and knew his stuff (I feel less love for the waitress in the Palais outlet, but that’s another story for another day).  As a new chain, there are teething pains when it comes to consistency of service, but the food is always yummy and well executed.

Not sure I love it, but if I worked in the area it would be a welcome addition.

PS.CAFE at A.S.H PARK
45 ANN SIANG RD  #02-02
SINGAPORE  069719
Reservations 9797 0648
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Art Stage Singapore

January 11th, 2011

Get ready to have your mind blown open by the vision of some spectacular artists.

New this year is Art Stage Singapore, held 12-16 Jan, at the Marina Bay Sands Exhibition and Convention Centre.  Billed as ‘an international art event’, and directed by the ex-director of the Basel Art Fair, this aims to put Singapore on the international art market/connoisseurs map.

The main exhibition, the fair itself at MBS, will host hundreds of ‘name’ galleries from around the world, showing thousands of paintings.  I can’t wait to see these pieces -

"Cathedral" David LaChapelle

David LaChapelle Cathedral 2007 Chromogenic Print 182.88 X 246.38 cm Courtesy de Sarthe Fine Art / © David LaChapelle

Geraldine Javier's almost gothic "Eyerollercoaster"

Geraldine Javier Eyerollercoaster 2009 Oil, preserved Walking Stick, embroidery using human hair, and textile on canvas 60 x 90 inches (diptych) Courtesy Arario Gallery/ Geraldine Javier

this mind-boggling piece by Matthew Carver - "Fumio and his doppelganger.."

courtesy Matthew Carver and Galerie Caprice Horn

All the works shown at the fair are for sale, so get your platinum cards ready.

Entry to the fair is $30 for a day pass, with some concession rates.

A special show Collectors Stage, will be held 14-17 Feb at various venues.  This is really cool – a chance to see pieces that are owned by collectors around the region.  Short of being invited into their homes you probably wouldn’t get to see these pieces.

Look at this fabulous piece by Agus Suwage, owned by Mr Deddy Kusuma

"Luxury Crime"

and Jane Lee’s fabulous piece, owned by Jackson See

detail from "Raw Canvas" by Jane Lee

Jane Lee (Singapore) Raw Canvas 2008 935 cm x 716 cm x 10 cm Acrylic paint on canvas Courtesy Jackson See/ Jane Lee

I’m so excited to attend to be able to be inspired by some amazing art, and expect my head to explode with all sorts of styles, techniques and approaches.  I hope this event lives up to expectations and becomes an annual fixture.

Around the time of the fair, accompanying events and exhibitions will be held at various venues around the island, some free.  Lots of stuff going on – more detail here

Taksu Gallery in Chip Bee will feature 8 contemporary artists, including one of my faves, Agathe de Baillencourt.

Malaysian artist Fauzulyusri is one of the featured artists at Taksu

local artist Ng Joon Kiat will also be on show at Taksu

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